why do we lie????!!!! .....

We do lie to adorn our lives to impression the people, because we have insecurity to show ourselves. Some people lie for hobbie and others for need.

Lying is something very easy to do without making effort. The price we have to pay is to be uncovered, therefore, people lying have to think very well all the things that we have to say, things had to be coherent with the history that we tell.

The habit of lying can be transformed in a transtorn. Because we don´t lie just for to be other persons if not for hide things we doing or we did and for things can help us.

Lies can give us security and pleasure because is something we like to be, because sometimes we dreaming to make possible all these things and we say it with a happiness and with a desire (as if we´re living like that) so people can believe us. Lie is like dream, because we can have fantasies about something unreal, for example, we can to live in a life we wish, be with the boy that you want to be but he isn´t for you or say that you weren´t in a place where you were there. Lying a lot and don´t be uncovered is like to be an actor what represents a character (when you can feel like a spy). When people believe us we feel pleasure and we have the taste of victory that things were as we planned.

But lies can give us concerns, fears and frustrations too, especially the fear of being uncovered for the people we love, can be family, friends, boyfriend, husband etc. and fear of losing important people for us.

Sometimes we feel powerless with our friends because we want to yell them what happen with us, what happen about our feelings. But unfortunately people can´t understand us and for these we do lie and we invented histories, because some things we doing are wrong but we still do it. People always talk about us what is right or what is wrong, but never agree with what we do, getting into the lives of everyone wanting to "help" but they don´t do it. If what I do is wrong, is my life! And for all this things the people lie, for don´t feel rejections and for don´t listening claims useless because we ´ll continue do it. I think lies exist for the society because some people are worried of what others may think about ourselves our anything.

There are white lies that can be forgiven but there are also lies that will never forgive. I think that is according to the person, how to think, how to act, etc. and the king of problem we want to hide.